Sometimes we need to talk...
I do wonder about such statements. I mean, slavery, emancipation for women, universal suffrage, free education, universal healthcare, worker's rights..... I could go on .... were all talked about ad infinitum before they were finally resolved with enlightened justice. If those who fought against these wrongs had not talked, would things have changed at all or as soon as they did?
Surely talking about drama you don't want in your life is the first step to healing, resolving or removing?
And sometimes other people bring drama into your life that you don't want but they are wounded, damaged, suffering and because you care about them you share that drama, seeking always whatever resolution can be managed.